You know, women are hardwired to be caregivers; men, to sow their oats. I got an idea from some of my Pinterest pictures of some humiliation ideas. It was a set of jewelry, consisting They've got used to seeing men on TV (from Pop Idol through to the aussie cricket team) with earrings and it doesn't register, provided the earrings are fairly subtle. by Guest84 Tue Jun 27, 2006 2:29 am, Post He then asked me for nail varnish which I let him have. It was pretty common when/where we grew up, but he''s even said he thought it would look stupid on him. My new earrings are still in place and Im pleased to say not going anywhere. by Clyde5412 Fri Feb 25, 2022 2:46 am, Post When I finally became brave enough to have my ears pierced, it opened many new possibilities for earring styles. Because you have responded so well and are enjoying the sexual side of things he thinks hes been given the green light to do it whenever he pleases which is all the time. by Guest Tue Aug 15, 2006 12:12 pm, Post Thoughts? It took me a couple hours to read the whole thing. by Guest Wed Nov 09, 2005 1:14 pm, Post ROARING over here!!!! Original Fiction by Peter 2001. If you are reluctant, though, I understand! Come on, darling, let's go by Lookout Wed May 24, 2006 10:26 am, Post Laid out on the table was a pair of handcuffs, a leather dog's What could I say to them to convice them? by Guess 53 Tue Nov 08, 2005 6:47 am, Post Meanwhile, her daughter had finished the first ear on her younger sister. by longstayer Fri Aug 05, 2005 7:36 pm, Post Go for it. I think hes being unfair, especially as youve been great and very accepting, even though as you put it, it wasnt what you signed up for. If they didn''t like them so much I''d probably be upset that they were a present from an x. ?You're so sweet, my friendthank you for your sweet words about my photo. by Kd7b Mon May 14, 2018 8:28 pm, Post !WELCOME BACK TO BLOGLAND! ive had them done 3 times at claires but always removed them soon after. Here is also a link to eBays current listings for studs. Then I added another set the month after then another the week after then another Now I have 9 holes in each ear and wear gold hoops (excepted for the upper ones which are not completely healed). Husband Dare To Wear A Dress. No i own so many wonderfull earring in all kind of styles, and i really love long dangly earrings, even an older and slightly overweight woman like me (i just turned 54 this year) can wear those. think it ridiculous and laugh at me. We use your sign-up to provide content in the ways you've consented to and improve our understanding of you. hesitantly explained. There are so many easier styles of crossdresser earrings from which to choose! Post Luckily he had no problem with that, so he pierced his ears and started to wear earrings. ", I hugged him, I want to pierce the other but my parents don't agree. Of course being the same age as me and a girl, she KNEW they were my jeans. Welcome to my blog! I get compliments on the earrings that I bought from her all the time. I wish people to always feel relaxed here.And you're so sweet, Kate. Now tell me did you ever do anything to get back at sis? by Earring Husband Thu May 14, 2020 2:44 pm, Post !THAT WAS FABULOUS!!!YES!!!! I thought it would be a one-off experiment and I agreed. tee hee. by Lookout Mon Jul 31, 2006 11:02 am, Post by Shriv123 Tue Sep 06, 2022 8:40 pm, Post I think the reason is simple: nobody thinks it's important. Usually well behaved and considerate, Billy became a tearaway. The earrings I wear are 2 inch silver hoops for everyday use, and large 2.5 inch for evenings out, and social events. He got into endless trouble over pranks. "It's crooked!" the former nursing student cried. So one night he wore a pair of my jeans to work. Premium. Courtesy of Lindsay Wolf. My husband has started cross-dressing. Sep 20, 2017 at 5:17 PM. Wearing a stud on the right ear may mean that a man is homosexual but this notion is fading fast. No earrings on my hubby and he never wants to get his ears (or anything else) pierced. Don't miss resident agony aunt Coleen Nolan's weekly newsletter. I guess I got tired of taking them out when I had certain meetings. She actively encourages me to wear the earrings including multiple earrings at the same time usually about 5, a hoop and stud in each ear and then a upper cartilage hoop in one of the ears. You are the one making that link. collar and handcuffs. Even people who dont like earrings on men have largely gotten used to the sight. Ok, enough said, now i will look a bit more through your blog, and sorry for my bad english, best wishes and kisses from Germany Nancy says she and her husband had been talking about schools for their . are not expecting any visitors today, so you can wear them all day. Worse than that, his genitals were quite hairy and this looked far too masculine. !I CAN'T STOP LAUGHING AT YOUR HYSTERICAL COMMENT! And I actually think it's GREAT!As ALWAYSI thank you for dropping by and sharing your wonderful energy and WIT!You ROCK!Have a FUN weekend!X, HOLY SHIT ANNDI!! I am not doing all that walking in those heels! CHAPTER ONE. Ever since, I have had a burning desire to have my husband wear sexy lingerie and makeup . A stud or hoop in one ear or studs and hoops in both ears worn with confidence by guys are very stylish. Originally Published: Feb. 28, 2020. All started by a nigth event organized by a couple of friends for a costumed party with " you and its opposite". "Come on, Mom," she said. Joined Apr 10, 2006 . No of course not becuase they are far to stylish,have too much respect for themselves and care about the way they look. In I cant remember why it didnt happen back then, but Im pleased to say that it did happen today! He was tempted to get a bar across the top of his ear when he was about 20 but he never got it done in the end. The best thing about hoops, in my opinion, is that except for the huge ones, nobody looking at you is going to think they are out-of-place on you. I think I am trying to punish you now that you mention it. I have tried a couple of clip hoops and found them very unsatisfactory. When I wore them, I was a frequent customer on eBay. In his last misadventure, he got suspended from school for a week for lobbing a stink bomb into the girls' toilets. Make your confidence shine with the dew drop rhinestone detail that will be sure to make you *sparkle*. My husband has preferences for wearing women's clothing and, as I have explained in another post, I decided to . Dec 21, 2006 #13 No.. The wire is straight, just like a stud, so it is easy to put through your piercing. Isn't that disgusting? by Alpha Male Fri May 29, 2020 2:41 pm, Post Whatever your style, you will be able to find crossdresser earrings that are alluring to you. a better idea," he replied. by Holed Fri May 29, 2020 4:50 pm, Post Don't get me wrong, this part of our marriage has been good, but I feel it could be raised to a higher level. With practice, it becomes a lot easier. I would have planted an atheletic jock in my sister's pocket as my mother was about to do the wash. Then who would turn red?So you wore mother's earrings when you were small we all did that my friend. Christmas morning And part of that is opening up and having a proper discussion, answering your questions and agreeing on some boundaries. He has dresses, skirts and tops, but mainly just wears the lingerie. 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Women have so many more beautiful choices. It's best to laugh through ityes. raised to a higher level. He says hes not gay and doesnt want to be with men. by LeatherWendy Sun Jun 07, 2020 4:37 pm, Post subject of my fantasy. Aloha Debi!Thank you, sweet lady!Nowdo have any pierced earrings from Chanel I could borrow?I only wear designer shit.I'm such a snotty bitch!HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!Thanks for dropping by Deb!Enjoy your weekend!X, ron, what a gorgeous man you are! You made me laugh tonight..and I knew you would. :) Maybe I'll pick me up a hair accessory and we can MATCH! Then about three years ago, I decided that enough was enough and started to wear steel studs. by kymtheangel2006 Mon Jul 31, 2006 6:36 pm, Post You are so funny! It was a bit of a stretch to get them in, and now the holes have reduced to the size of the middle part of the plug they are quite unremoveable - which is exactly what I intended. by Tina TV Fri Feb 09, 2018 9:05 am, Post You are using an out of date browser. Her neighbor, a boy named Jeff Filz, sat . Other attractive accessories include scarves, suspenders, hats and bowties. Having said that, the one time I was able to do it, I was very pleased with the look. It gave me great pleasure to share it with you. He wore the earrings for a couple years, then got sick of them and took them out. The fact is that unlike yesteryear, many men pierce their ears today. I havent counted but would guess I have about 100 pairs. by guest-pat Mon Aug 14, 2006 8:31 pm, Post collar with a leash attached, and a leather, boned corset. Just so you know, I was the same way a few years ago. Post by Guest Wed Jun 28, 2006 3:33 pm, Post Hoops come in a variety of metals, sizes, and even shapes. Unfortunately, due to the pandemic, being with people outside your bub. But back in the early '80's I had a pair or two of stone-washed 'baggies' in a very blue blue color and another in a brown with some rust stripes. Thursday night, I played with my photo over at Picnik and added the ear bangles!I think I look like Cher, don't you?HAHAHAHAHA!Ohthat's so funny about you and your sister trying on your mothers negligees and pretending to drink WINE!! It would be marvelous to be subservient to my husband's demands. It may sound odd to stop doing something you love just because your spouse disapproves, but for my husband, earrings are a complete turn-off . ?Especially since I wouldn't have had any money to go INSIDE the wallet!! by Soraya Sat Feb 03, 2018 9:44 am, Post In this new age people don't seem to care so much about what your earring says about you but more about what type it is and how it looks on you. !My earlobe looked like a ride at Disney World!HAHHAHAHHA!Thanks SOOOO much for stopping by to read my strange secret, Linda!And you can STILL call me Ronnie, if you'd likeeveryone does.Ronnie The Earring ManHave a FAAAAAAAAABULOUS weekend!X, Sorry, "snotty bitch",but I can't afford that shit. The earlobe becomes irritated by the pressure of the clip. That happened after I asked him to pierce them. by Kd7b Tue May 15, 2018 2:10 am, Post If you are going to pierce your ears, do them both. I love crossdresser earrings that use hooks to fasten them to my ears! Hi Sammy, But if I see the fake Chanel stuff from Korea at the swap meet again, I'll pick up some clip-ons for ya! !Your awesome humor always gives me such great delight!And I bet you're one hell of a FABULOUS mom too!Thank you for not only sharing your humor, but also your special spirit!Have a FUN weekend, dear lady!X, Unless you killed a child there is nothing else that would make me stop visiting you Ron m'dear.Sisters (or in my case brothers) can be little shits can't they!When my boys were little they used to try on all they granny's jewellery. Most men don't care much about fashion; the responsibility that comes with being a husband appears to cover their mind and puts them off other interesting areas of life. hehehehe.Oh and you must have looked so very wondeful with them onand I say your sis was a tad envious that the ear rings looked so much better on you than on herafter all I'm sure she was rushing in thee to try mom's earrings on too. The only jewelry he wears is his ring, never a necklace, bracelet, etc. Anything else looks ridiculous. ;)I've got some old pairs of high heels you can have because they make Mimi's feet too hurty. We also may change the frequency you receive our emails from us in order to keep you up to date and give you the best relevant information possible. I thought this would then give me the opening to broach the Her soon to be fourteen year old son, Billy, had gotten in with the wrong crowd at school. !And HAPPY NEW YEAR to YOU!!! It''s some weird freak of nature thing because I''m ultra conservative. This is one case where the pierced versions make vastly superior crossdresser earrings. at last told you my fantasy. Dear Abby: My husband and I recently watched a comedy that featured men cross-dressing. He is the most gentle and attentive man when hes dressed up, and is the best lover you could dream of. Tee hee.xo, Aloha Debi!OMGyou KILL ME, GIRL!! The style of earrings I wear are similar to the ones worn by the woman in your picture. He cross-dresses during breakfast and right until the last minute when its time for him to leave for work. I think it was down to the stigmas attached to having my ear/ears pierced and as much as I wanted to keep them in I never did up until recently. Lots of guys wear two earrings. No I couldn''t imagine that in any way. by Logjam Mon Feb 05, 2018 9:51 am, Post My husband has started cross-dressing. I have the same problem as my wife does not like guys with earrings. I have read help blogs and websites for partners of cross-dressers, but no one seems to have this situation every minute of every hour. by FashionQueen Tue Aug 23, 2005 8:27 pm, Post "I can't do this.". by happy girlfriend Mon Jul 31, 2006 5:55 pm, Post I share a wide variety of topics because I'm interested in so many things. Lever Back fasteners are very commonly used for hoop earrings. There are several advantages to having a cross-dresser as a husband: A crossdresser integrates with his lifestyle two different best of gender personality, meaning he can effortlessly associate with any gender. Leave a comment. And this blog is where I share them all in one. LOLOLOLI'd say you look pretty darn cute and sassy in those dangles. him to give to me. by Guest Wed Jun 28, 2006 7:16 pm, Post Absolutely everything about him just makes me melt. Oh, and if you're worried about "what people will think", don't. You can also read my About page where you'll discover more about me. Thanks for stopping by! A few months ago I noticed my husband had begun colouring in his little finger with a sharpie pen. Fortunately, you have alternatives with clip earrings. !And my sister?Wellshe looked like SATAN!HAHAHAHAHAHA!Thanks for dropping by, Jeff!Have a FUN weekend!P.S. Ask our PriceScope members and industry experts for a second opinion or get lost in the thousands of user-shared diamond and jewelry images for inspiration. by Guest Thu Aug 03, 2006 3:51 pm, Post She liked the look and she enjoyed playing with them. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Read more about Sami by clicking her name. This type of fastener is highly recommended for some just starting with hoop earrings. There is almost no limit. I have both lobes double pierced but hardly wear anything in them when Im out and about as I only wear studs or rings when Im at home with the wife, mainly due to work concerns. by louise P Thu Aug 17, 2006 10:20 am, Post and I will never call you ronnie again, promise! by Alpha Male Mon Feb 21, 2022 9:23 am, Post He had one goal in mind, which was to wear his big sister's unicorn princess dress. Not yet. I understood every word! There is no extra cost to you! We are on our own and by Guest Wed May 24, 2006 11:03 pm, Post I understand it if you are reluctant to have your ears pierced! We also pretended we were drinking wine..with the wine glasses!! Your email address will not be published. Given below are ten reasons why Men may choose to wear earrings. I feel bad about doing this, but I was just trying to assess the extent of what was going on. Some hoops even have detailed engravings on them. Im really happy with them and have been wearing all four pairs all weekend while wondering why I didnt do this sooner. It sure wasn't for the salary. I love, love, love long crossdresser earrings! Notify me of follow-up comments by email. I can almost imagine a smug and self satisfied expression on her face.Oh; didn't we hate "tattletales" as kids .I bet you were hot in those hoops, and babe ! My husband is very feminine in his looks and maners. You just need patience in your search. hehehe. So it isnt the society that is holding you back, its yourself. So I had my husband wearing dresses, skirts and tights. It is a straight wire on a hinge. Pretty strange for an Italian man! I still have my ex's guitar plectrum, I dont use it but he gave it me years ago. I have been dreading telling you because you might I am over forty and work in a conventional workplace. *that KARMA will get youeverytime!HAHAHAHAHHAHA!Anyway, I hope you had a GREAT Christmas and a VERY Happy New Year!Have a FUN weekend, Kate!X. Many men wear rings as a fashion trend. My biggest thought would be that it means nothing and you shouldn't think anymore of it, but it does make you think if you wanted someone back, you would still wear the stuff. I sure enjoyed it. by Brian 2 Fri Nov 04, 2005 11:00 am, Post Click one of the buttons below. okay like this one time one of my sister's b/fs called for her but I said she was on a dateooops. p.s. He's a genius and it show how well his balance is. Shopping for an engagement ring, but dont know where to start? My wife, who I love dearly, has been hinting to me for years now that I should get my ears pierced. 2 reviews of Argentum et Aurum "Every piece of jewelry I buy from here instantly feels like an heirloom. hubby is very proud to be non-pierced and non-tattoed. ?I've been offline for most of the day, because I wanted to spend the afternoon walking around outside in all this FREEZING weather we're having. Eliza. You are a gem!And nothing wrong with a little "experimenting" when you're a child, right?? They are coming up for their 1000-day anniversary next week (though who's counting?). I say if you want to do it, who cares how old you are. by Holed Sun Aug 09, 2020 10:54 am, Post Thank you. Although I havent tried the magnet approach myself, I imagine it is quite possiblethe magnet can dislodge without your knowledge. Been looking for a while, but still cant find that perfect gift? Having some crossdresser earrings dangling from your ears is going to make you look and feel more feminine. i asked my boyfriend to get his ears pierced just after we met because i love a guy with earrings.after a bit of convincing he agreed and had them done .when they were healed i bought him some diamond studs and he wore them for a few months ,then one night in the bedroom i asked him to try my long gold tassle earrings on because it would turn me on ,and boy did it .we tried this a few times and it was such good fun sometimes he would wear them around the house to tease me . Mark Bryan, an American robotics engineer living in Germany, wears towering high heels and skirts every day to prove "clothes have no gender," he told Bored Panda. ~~~~On August 4, 2007 I married my best friend~~~~. :) I used to try on my Mother's jewelry tooand her ngliges! I had no idea it would go on so intensely and so frequently. "My God," he These typically use a spring-loaded clip to press the back of the earring snuggly against your earlobe. *but don't tell anyonethat's actually a photo of my SISTER after she went through the change.Tee, hee!Thanks for stopping by dear lady!You always bring such LIGHT!Love ya! There are costume jewelry lines that offer clip earrings. Although she still has a lot to learn herself, she is enjoying teaching new crossdressers tips that will hopefully help them on their adventure. and saw him there. ?I added my new photo to the bottom of my blog about a week ago, it was a photo taken when I first moved back to Philly. I'll bet your face looked like a giant tomato, and your evil sister probably had a shit eating grin from ear to ear. One of the best ways to maintain control over your girlie husband is to control her clitty and pussy and humiliate and feminise it. But why the collar You know ME.Mr. Penguin!I also watched a movie this afternoon. It is possible to get stud-like clip earrings. (but the only difference is that my sister was NOT a beauty queen!! More From Women's Health. It would be like 'I don't think I said anything' or 'I didn't say it like THAT' Beauty queens (and yes, she did win a major pageant) have a habit of secretly loving a little extra drama. upstairs, have a shower and dress you in your new outfit. Hellooooo Mel! Although men can wear earrings today, most do not. by piercedguy Wed Apr 29, 2020 8:12 pm, Post No earrings, or any other piercings for that matter. Taking it off is equally easy. :D, Good Morning Miss Jones!It's funny, I called my mother on Friday evening and told her that I posted this story on my blog and the two of us laughed our asses off remembering!! It was nice, I think I paid $2 or $3 for it, and you could only tell if you looked REAL close that it said "Ferragangs" on it LOL.I'm only going to Macy's tomorrow. Time for the next big step. First, stop wearing the offending articles; second, move them to the far end of your closet or, better yet, to another closet entirely; and, finally, give the jackets to your favorite charity, and . I suspect he's hesitating for a number of reasons, some of them societal and some of them based on his fear of ridicule from buddies at work and so on. by US GUEST Wed Aug 03, 2005 11:19 pm, Post Thanks. Update: Im now getting together with a lovely woman I first fancied 25 years ago.She likes me wearing earrings and nail varnish (which I do - currently Japanese company RMKs Taro Horouich Navy). I used to sneak in Dad's stuff and wear his athletic cup (sadly, I would have needed 2 to get the bra to look even). Are you trying to punish me or what?" "You know, I think you're right. !THAT would have been BRILLIANT!! My little sister could not tell, because she did too. wear skirts so short they dont cover her clitty, have her dresses and skirts pinned up at the front to expose her clitty or. On vacation about a month ago, I mentioned to my wife that I was going to start wearing me earrings again, and wanted to get my right ear pierced. It was a huge thing for him to even wear his wedding band because he hates jewelry on men. I always wanted him to wear earrings, like other men that I knew. It is a big deal, and it exposes your crossdressing desires just a bit to the world. The verdict: Ear cuffs are ear cuffs, not earrings. Longer earrings are more likely to get tangled in your hair. Many young men wear ear studs or hoops as a style statement because they want to or find it attractive or stylish or to enhance their looks. I'VE MISSED YOU GREATLY! Cubic Zirconia Silver Hoops Sterling Silver Decorated Hoops Gold Hoops Filigree Silver Hoops Types of Hoop Fasteners - Lever Lever Back Hoop Earring Lever Back fasteners are very commonly used for hoop earrings. 1 / 2 Man-Purse or Satchel This man-purse trend became popular with the onset of metrosexuals: metropolitan heterosexuals. by Clyde5412 Tue Sep 06, 2022 3:58 pm, Post First, you have to keep the wire in your earlobe. Plus some hair on his chest which showed on the low cut dress. I am 40 and wear an earring in my left ear. ?My family has it too.But hellit makes for AWESOME blog posts, doesn't?? !Hugs from France, Leesa. You're going to have to try harder than that to scare us off buddy!That was a riot. You wear makeup because you like how it looks on you. Hello. At my office, however, this was dressed up for casual Friday. I KNOW you'll find some great deals!! Again, thank you for taking the time to write. It is nice and clean and feels great. In fact, I have two piercings in one ear, but haven't worn an earring in SO many years, I'm sure they closed up by now.But DAMNwhen I did wear them, I had all sorts of HOOPS coming out of my ear!! When it comes to deciding whether to get your ears pierced, it boils down to whether you have the guts to do it. And I totally LOVE your new picture, with or without the earrings.Have a great weekend, my friend. )Don't you LOVE family DRAMA? I had talked about my interest to my wife for years - she sort of seemed disinterested or said "well if you want to". I don''t think that look goes with the suit and tie dress code! by Yamaharley_UK Wed Aug 24, 2005 2:30 pm, Post by Clyde5412 Wed Sep 07, 2022 2:13 am, Post Did You See February 2023's Jewels Of The Weeks? Hellooooo Kate!! She likes that too and she is getting hers double pierced. Hello Minion99, so glad to hear that all is going well. "I dare you to put him in dresses. I''m the same as Ephem no earrings, friends don''t have them, and FI doesn''t like the looks of them. The spring closure is a tube into which you feed a wire. The townie mall is having a sidewalk sale, and I haven't raided THEIR after Xmas clearance sections yet! or went for one and came out with 2? by suzzie76 Mon Aug 01, 2022 8:59 am, Post Although there are others, the last type of fastener I want to discuss is the spring closure. In addition, I think it is daintier looking that the lever backs. You are so adorable Ron!I don't often get to stop by or even comment, but your blog will never leave my blog list ever! We are talking about me getting my belly button pierced. There are three things you have to do at the same time. Please feel free to browse my categories. I would have loved to have been therewhen the salad forks hit the table. However, Ive had enough struggles with it that Ive decided it isnt worth testing my patience. ". Nope, he''s ulta conservative. I had a single pi*r*i*g in each ear for many years, though pressures (real or imagined) meant that this was a private thing - I hardly ever wore anything in them in public except where I knew I wouldn't be recognised. You are in the right place if you want to know the answers. I must say after a while these style of earrings do pinch and become annoying. He never takes them out. Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. After seven years of marriage my partner has started cross-dressing but now he does it so much I wonder if it really is just an attempt to spice things up in the bedroom. Hope you're having a vunderbar Sunday!It's FREEZING here right now, so I'm going to spend part of the day walking around the city enjoying every single minute of it!!! She said something, their mother took it the wrong way, added her own opinions into the mix, and Ron got told about it a couple days later. Good Evening Dearest Gypsy-Heart!OMG!!!! Dear Coleen: Is it wrong that I've been sleeping with my ex-girlfriend's sister? ONESING 20 Pcs Dangle Earrings $11.49 $12.99 12% Off Buy Now On Amazon 2. My hips moved and I really had a bounce to my new breasts. You can certainly find choices for crossdresser earrings without piercing your ears. Log in. NEVER! Searing pain in my left ear. Once through, all one needs to do is snap the lever into place. But you only decide whether to wear earrings or not, regardless of the views. Bonjour Barbara!OMGGREAT to see ya!! They also allow you to set the mood for your face. This morning I went into the mall, and to Clairs and in about 10 minutes I had my right ears pierced. Hook earrings are the main reason I decided to get my ears pierced. Yesterday was my 53rd birthday, and like so many men who read the postings on this thread, I have always wanted my ears pierced. Required fields are marked *. As a crossdresser, if you are new to the joys of earrings, please follow me through your introduction to the many choices you can consider!